Our Mental Health: my brief advise to suffering family .....

05 December 2011, 03:07
honey physical therapist [ Scorecard : 24] Thank the Contributor Send PM	Hi, I am a physical therapist settled in usa but soon planning to come to india as i have family there. I have a brother whose wife creating lot of problems in my family, she keeps fighting with all for no reason. she never takes any responsibilities and always keeps demanding money and threatning my family that she will commit suicide. she is working in goverment sector . She is a schdule caste too and hence threatens us of putting false case of caste discrimination as we are not schdule cast and it was a love marrige. I seriously feel she has some psychological problem. my brother is suffering but he is not able to do anything as he thinks it will create problems for family. she physically hits my brother. please suggest me what shuld we do? thanks a lot honey

05 December 2011, 06:19
mahendrakumar marketing [ Scorecard : 3527] Thank the Contributor Send PM	as you suspect she seems to have some mental health problems. try to take her to a family counselor,so that her reason for such behaviour could be known and treated. Message thanked : 1 times

05 December 2011, 06:26
honey physical therapist [ Scorecard : 22] Thank the Contributor Send PM	thanks for the reply. but we tried a lot to take to a psychologist ,she does not go and her family threatens us that we are trying to make their daughter mad.

05 December 2011, 08:32
Alok Tholiya self employed [edit] [edit photo] [ Scorecard : 344]	1. If there r any irritants which u can remove then do so on priority. 2. If possible your own family must shift or make ur brothers family to shift and separate. 3. Only person who she trusts can convince her to go to mental heath experts.If any one with whom she is enimical tries then that will bounce back. 4. Make good friendship with her parents side someone. Win them. Slowly when they realize you mean and care for her well being they will cooperate. Presently they have heard her side and think u ( means ur side) r responsible for her sufferings and doubts will go on and they will never cooperate. 5. If she wants soem minor things which u 'll can afford then bet it without asking. 6. Remeber and celebrate her B'day etc ( find otherways to create bonding). 7. Wish her family on imp. events / occassions and keep rapport. 8. Most often some people do not change much ( genetic defect ) and you have to increase your bearing capacity to save marriage life and save you from laws. 9. Time will come she will change...Keep good books, music, pravachan, cd's etc as good company.